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Ungodly Soul Ties: Co-Dependency in Relationships

What Do Soul Ties Look Like

Inor­di­nate Affec­tion is a soul tie to another human being or another way of say­ing it co-dependency.

Ungodly soul ties attach itself (entan­gling a per­son) to a per­son in the soul area which is the mind, will and emo­tions.  Their thoughts are no longer their own.  When a per­son is unnat­u­rally and inor­di­nately affected by the mind, will and emo­tions and desire of another per­son dic­tated to them how to think.  It can be a for­ni­ca­tor, adul­tery relationship.

Soul ties definition

Ungodly soul ties which is a form of co-dependency is being knit together, becom­ing one flesh and it does not only hap­pen when two peo­ple have sex.  It can hap­pen when there is a needy per­son or spir­i­tu­ally incor­rect per­son com­ing out of your need to be loved.  It’s an inor­di­nate affec­tion (love) because it’s not based out of giv­ing.  Ungodly Soul ties are based out of receiv­ing, and not who you are.

Who you are in Christ is com­plete and you don’t need to receive it from any­body. But, a per­son, who is depen­dent on the other, has an ungodly soul tie.  If

What is Inor­di­nate Affection?:

What is Inor­di­nate affec­tion is a co-dependent rela­tion­ship:  There’s noth­ing wrong with deep friend­ship between mem­bers of the same sex, but there is a prob­lem when it becomes depen­dent on each other — co-dependency. Or it can be with the oppo­site sex. For instance, a stalker may have an inor­di­nate affec­tion for some­one which is an ungodly soul tie.

Usu­ally in an inor­di­nate affec­tion, one is the giver and the other is the taker.  The one who is the taker is the con­troller of the rela­tion­ship (Jezebel — manip­u­la­tor).  The giver, because of fear of man and fear of rejec­tion, sub­mits and gives them­selves to the other to keep peace at all cost loos­ing them­selves in the process.  The manip­u­la­tor or con­troller con­trols the other per­son through guilt and shame to get them to per­form or meet their need of love as well.

Scrip­tures About Soul Ties

Co-dependent rela­tion­ships

Rev­e­la­tion. 2:21–22Rev­e­la­tion. 2:21–22
Eng­lish: King James Ver­sion (1611) — KJV

21 And I gave her space to repent of her for­ni­ca­tion; and she repented not. 22 Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that com­mit adul­tery with her into great tribu­la­tion, except they repent of their deeds.  

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. Notwith­stand­ing, I have a few things against you, because you suf­fer­est that woman Jezebel, which calls her­self to be a prophet­ess, to teach and seduce my ser­vants to com­mit for­ni­ca­tion and to eat things sac­ri­ficed unto idols. And I gave her space to repent of her for­ni­ca­tion. She repented not, there­fore I will cast her in a bed„ and them that com­mit adul­tery with her into great tribu­la­tion, except they repent of their deeds, and I will kill her chil­dren with death, that the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts.

How Do Ungodly Soul Ties Come About?

  • For­ni­ca­tion or adultery
  • Close Rela­tion­ships same sex or oppo­site sex (with no sex involved) when their is a need to need to feel love or accepted by another person:
  • Ten­den­cies to be dom­i­neer­ing and con­trol­ling in a relationship.
  • A needy soul per­son with code­pen­dency rela­tion­ship ten­den­cies (giver)
  • Develop from Sex­ual Abuse, emo­tional abuse phys­i­cal abuse from a part­ner or preditor
  • A sticky reli­gious organization
  • Homo­sex­u­al­ity is a co-dependent relationship
  • Vows and covenants
  • Broth­er­hood or fratur­nity cre­ates co-dependent relationships

Ungodly Soul Ties Formed a Co-dependent Rela­tion­ship, or Affil­i­a­tion:“Do not be deceived and mis­led! Evil com­pan­ion­ships (com­mu­nion, asso­ci­a­tions — cor­rupt and deprave good man­ners and morals and char­ac­ter” 1 Cor. 15:331 Cor. 15:33
Eng­lish: King James Ver­sion (1611) — KJV

33 Be not deceived: evil com­mu­ni­ca­tions cor­rupt good man­ners.  

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.  God is aware we as peo­ple are influ­enced by our friends and asso­ci­a­tions. The fruit of soul ties that develop with sin­ful or evil com­pan­ions, co-workers and orga­ni­za­tions (even min­istries!) pro­duce behav­ior which is con­trary to the Spirit of God.  Ungodly soul ties cre­ated through close friend­ships with unbe­liev­ers are Satan’s coun­ter­feit and are intended to bring curses and destruction. 

Co-dependent behav­ior: Spir­i­tu­ally incor­rect peo­ple can­not do spir­i­tu­ally cor­rect things so why are you expect­ing them to. That’s com­ing out of your need, that’s com­ing out of your own rejec­tion, that’s com­ing out of your need to be loved, but it’s an inor­di­nate affec­tion. It’s an inor­di­nate love because it’s not based out of giv­ing, it’s based out of receiv­ing. And you’re com­plete­ness is now on the basis of receiv­ing, not who you are. But let me tell you, who you are in love can be com­plete and you don’t need to receive it from any­body. If you’re who you are is depen­dent on some­body being nice to you, you’ve blown it already. You should be complete

How do you know if you have an ungodly soul tie?

Every­thing you think about, you relate to or every place you go, and even the way you dress is based on upon another per­son or orga­ni­za­tion.  Not only that, your while life is planned around this other per­son or orga­ni­za­tion.  It is unhealthy.

What I mean about orga­ni­za­tion for exam­ple a church where you are not allowed to wear paints, cut your hair on so on.  Instead of trust­ing in the holy spirit it is ruled by the soul.  Cults are the same way.

It hap­pens when a per­son is a needy soul per­son who needs approval of oth­ers to feel loved.

We are body, soul and spirit.  Ungodly soul ties develop or entan­gle in the soul area of the mind, will and emotions.

A per­son entan­gled in an ungodly soul tie is play­ing their soul over their spirit with­out neg­a­tive outcome.

Our spirit should rule over the soul (flesh) — and should be king.
The soul is the mind, will and emo­tions of a per­son.  We can­not dis­cern or make right and godly deci­sions in the soul area. The body is the slave to our mind, will and emotions.

Renew­ing Your Mind for Break­ing Ungodly Soul Ties of Co-dependency relationships

You can­not rule your life by your soul — your emo­tions.  You can­not rule your life by your mind because your mind is mis­lead and needs to be renewed by the word of God.  If your mind being renewed or con­stantly not being renewed by the word of God, your mind will lead you to dis­truc­tion.  Demised of dif­fer­ent degree es.  It will lead you to unhealthy relationships.

Symp­toms of Ungodly Soul Ties

■ Obses­sive pre­oc­cu­pa­tion with another, to the neglect of the things of the Lord.

■ Ten­den­cies to be dom­i­neer­ing and con­trol­ling in a co-dependent relationship.

■ Ten­den­cies to be pas­sive and apa­thetic in a rela­tion­ship (eas­ily manipulated).

■ Inabil­ity to truly for­give from the heart.

■ Another person’s voice play­ing over and over in the mind like a tape-recorder.

■ Inabil­ity to bring a rela­tion­ship under the godly order and con­trol of the Holy Spirit.

■ Pat­terns of anger, blame and accu­sa­tions in a relationship.

■ Fear of “being real with” or speak­ing truth to another (intim­i­da­tion and fear of man).

■ Psy­chic or occul­tic phe­nom­ena within a relationship.

Sep­a­ra­tion by Iso­la­tion — Ungodlly Soul Ties

Iso­la­tion is a solid weapon of witch­craft. The per­son who is manip­u­lat­ing you wants to sep­a­rate you from your friends, your church, or any­one whom it per­ceives can speak truth into your life. The manip­u­la­tive per­son is jeal­ous of your gift­ings and wants to quench them or use your gifts to their ben­e­fit.  I have wit­nessed peo­ple that have two close, sta­ble friends and watched this force of wicked­ness sep­a­rate and iso­late its vic­tim from their com­rades.  They are filled with rejec­tion and cover up their rejec­tion and inse­cu­rity with manip­u­la­tion and control.

The work­ings of an Ungodly Soul Tie

Break­ing Soul Ties of co-dependent relationship

The Need for Break­ing Soul Ties: After a per­son sep­a­rates from the other per­son, then break­ing soul ties is nec­es­sary; oth­er­wise, all your thoughts will be toward that per­son.  Not only that, the soul ties will keep you in the past remem­ber­ing all the good and bad.  An Ungodly Soul tie grabs hold of you in the now and pulls you in the past.  You can­not oper­ate in the now with truth and logic real­ity and will mess every­thing around you in the now because your mind and soul and emo­tions are tied to the other per­son.  Many times, the per­son being con­trolled, will have to cre­ate a new iden­tity because while bound to that other per­son, you loose your iden­tity and be more like them.

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