How to Overcome Incest and Rape (Sexual Abuse) – What Comes In:
Any experience of sexual abuse is an open door to just about everything (bitterness, accusation, rejection, unloving spirits, fear, unclean spirits, shame and guilt, rejection, spirit of self-pity, self-hatred, etc.). What comes in from those experiences is fear and bitterness toward the perpetrator and against self. There are feelings of unclean, unloving spirits from the perpetrator to the victim from incest and rape. The occult is involve in the perversion. You got to get the person to forgive the perpetrator or abuser. If they don’t they will continue to have mental torment and harassment over the event. Matthew 18 is very clear that if we do not forgive, then you fight with torment.
The victim has shame and guilt and blames themselves for what has happened. It comes with the territory and includes self bitterness. Plus the unclean, unloving spirit (self-hatred) sets you up in victimization again. Speaking about the perpetrator, they almost always, (I suppose there can be exceptions), have sexual abuse and perversion in their background, in the generations.
Usually when a person is raped or lived through incest, they suffer from a wounded spirit. Father God wants to heal your heart. It is hard for a person who experience rape, to receive God’s full forgiveness because of the false responsibility. It is a lying spirit blaming you but it is not true making you feel guilty.
The way to get rid of the guilt and shame, self-accusation and a spirit of self-pity is to have the victim repent for their participation in an unclean sexual act even though they did it against their will. The reason for doing this is to legally close the door on Satan so that he can no longer accuse you and make you feel shame etc. Now Father God certainly knows you were a victim and He does not hold you responsible, but the devil will use it to torment you so we want to close the door . And if he comes back after that, you can say that it is under the blood. I repented for that already.
Use Matt. 18:6-7 [Open in Logos Bible Software (if available)] for this and this is one time he prefers the NIV.
Also if the perpetrator is a family member and there is sexual sin in the generations, the victim can take responsibility for the family sin (generational curses) and renounce it in the generations and ask that the generational curse of it be broken. And of course the bitterness and unforgiveness and rage toward the perpetrator.
And you need to take authority over the mimes and break their power so that the memory of it will not stir you up every time you think of it. And if you can’t get it out of your mind then also break the programming that would take you back to that experience.
God Tested Job Part 2 – Door Opened For Job to Be Tested, Sanctified
One of his friends Elihu saw one fundamental flaw in Job: that Job believed that he was without original sin. Job was self-righteous. Yes, he was righteous as far as men are concerned, but he was not righteous as far as God’s concern. Elihu points out Job was a sinner like everyone else and is subject to the curse of sin which includes sickness and poverty.
Job 42:5-6 5 I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear,But now my eye sees You. Therefore I abhor myself, And repent in dust and ashes. God here had done a work of sanctification and purified Jobs heart because it is written blessed are the pure in heart as they shall see God.” In the end Job healed and blessed twice as much after his trial. In other words, Job did not stay sick or broke. He was healed and blessed. Why, because he saw his self-righteous in him.
What is Sanctification? Sanctification is the result of being purified. When the contaminants, pollutions and alloys have been burned from our souls, we emerge from the furnace sanctified; that is, we now have a new purpose. Our part in the sanctifying process requires that we separate ourselves from Babylon and all that is profane, unholy and ungodly.
9:20-25 Nay but, O man, who art thou that replies against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed [it], Why hast thou made me thus? 21 Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour? 22 [What] if God, willing to shew [his] wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: 23 And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory, 24 Even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
We Christians are a work in progress. The Bible calls it sanctification. God’s aim is to produce a vessel unto His glory. A vessel that others are able to see that we are the design and handy work of the Master Potter.
God Tested Job – The Potters Clay
To start with, a potter needs a lump of clay and before he can make anything out of it, the foreign matter must be removed from it. Any stones, twigs or debris must come out. This analogy is very fitting as we know that we were made by our Creator out of clay. Ge 2:7 And the LORD God formed man [of] the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. Ge 2:19 And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought [them] unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that [was] the name thereof.
Then the potter may need to add some water and knead the clay until it is pliable and ready to cast on the wheel. Having done this necessary preparation, the clay is ready to receive the shape the potter has in mind.
The potter must have a plan for this lump of clay before He ever places his hands firmly around it on the spinning wheel. In His mind he sees the finished vessel. Therefore, every touch and each tool skillfully used, contributes to finish His work.
We Christians are the clay, our God is the Potter. If we are to become useful vessels we must not resist His skillful hands at work. We must not flee from the pressures of life it’s significant part in finishing our vessel.
Some of the pressures which God exerts upon us are hard to bear, but is glorious of them is to make us into His image and likeness. God must remove the foreign debris first. The lustful sinful things of this world must go. These things in us are so much part of our whole lives, but how in the world will we be able to withdraw from the wrong course of life and the evil patterns we’ve always followed?
First, coming to Christ for the new birth, means changing are coming to the way we relate to this world. Many don’t count on that. They only come to Jesus for a fire escape from hell. But there is so much more to it.
What is our attitude during trials of sanctification?
James wrote, My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patients. But let patience have her perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing (1:2-4).The word count here means to consider, referring a particular “attitude” about something.
The word (verse 2) refers to that which we delight in or are pleased with, and James even emphasized this by saying all joy; this is the “attitude” that James demanded Christians have toward their trials.
Paul was one of those who, though he suffered much (Second Corinthians 11:22-33), regarded it a joy worthy to suffer for God: he could be sorrowful, yet rejoice (Second Corinthians 6:10); this ability of Paul proves our attitude has much to do with whether or not a test remains bitter or made into something sweet.
Look at it that God is doing deliverance by removing fleshly thinking and wrongful attitudes.
Knowing that the testing of your faith produces patienceâ€ (James 1:3).
Hebrews 12:1-3 Therefore since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us and let us run with endurance the race that is before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfected, or finisher of faith who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
God desires to break our self-will so that we can be fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. Brokenness is the Lord’s method of dealing with our self-reliance that is within us to act independently from Him. Through adversity, God targets the areas of self-will in our lives. He wants to break the attitudes that do not honor Him such as self-righteousness, self-reliance, and self-centeredness. The result is that He fills ours lives with spiritual fruit (Gal. 5:22-23).
What Was Paul’s Thorn on His Side?
The apostle Paul’s horn in the flesh kept him from exalting himself, despite his impressive credentials (2 Cor. 12:7-9). Three times he cried out to God for its removal. Yet pride is so deadly that suffering this ‘thorn’ was preferable to succumbing to pride’s charms. God opposes the proud. (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5).
Jesus corrected Peter’s pride many times (Matt. 14:24-31; Matt. 16:21-23; Matt. 26:33-35; Luke 22:54-62; John 13:5-10; John 18:1-11) so that the apostle could lead the church (Acts 2:14-47).
The Father uses adversity to breaks our self-will and transform us into useful vessels for His kingdom. Usually when people think about facing hardship, they focus on the suffering and pain involved.
Along with Job, Paul, Moses and even Joseph, these men had callings and purposes but Pride was in their way. Fear is the spirit that can fuel pride to cover insecurities, boastfulness, etc. God allowed these men to go through trials for sanctification to cleanse their flesh and testing to withstand the testing to be released to greater destiny and use.
What are the fruit of the spirit? Gal. 5:22-23 “Love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.” What does it mean “there is no law”? Galatians 5:18 Be But led by the Spirit, you are not under law. Another way of looking at this is those, whose lives are adorned by the above virtues, cannot be condemned by any law, for the whole purpose and design of the moral law of God is fulfilled in those who have the Spirit of God, producing in their hearts and lives the preceding fruits.
Are you controlled by the spirit or are you controlled by your flesh? What flesh does God need to remove from your means of thinking or action! Is it pride, self-righteousness, self centeredness, 20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, retellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before …
Be Not Deceived and Learn Methods of Discernment to determine if bad or not:
This is what I use to measure as a method for discernment to not be deceived by others:
Who was the founder of this modality?
What was his/her spirituality?
What culture did it come out of?
What were their beliefs?
Who is their God or gods?
What is the message or true meaning?
Another way to learn methods of discernment is to study your word, read it and memorize the scripture. Also, if you ever get a check in your spirit, don’t ignore it. Don’t trust everything your pastor does. If you don’t learn methods of discernment you will end up being deceived and opening the door to a demonic world that can hurt you.
I know that Jesus warned us about deception and being deceived through God’s Word. Listed below are discernment scriptures:
Romans 16:18 “For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.” 1 Corinthians 15:33 “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.”
We usually think of the origin of medicine coming from Hippocrates in Greece, but documented that the Egyptians practising pharmacology and medicine at 1000 years before Hippocrates.
The Orgin of Medine and its roots
When you research history or origin of medicine it comes from either Greek medicine, Egyptian medicine, Babylonian medicine, etc. you learn the origin of the logos for the American Medical Association comes out of occult origins.
The purpose of medical practice is to turn people away from God and the idea that disease is a result of sin – Deut. 28. This is bypassing the penalty of the curse.
So the origin of medicine is not a Godly origin. That does not mean to throw the baby out with the bath. There are definite times when we need a doctor but to recognise the Lord is the healer. It is important we go to God for healing first in prayer and that we repent from sin issues that caused the disease in the first place.
Today we have medicine to lower blood pressure so that we can live longer to deal with fears of the future that are behind high blood pressure.
Masturbation in Marriage – Masturbation outside of marriage
The problem is with masturbation is all sin starts with a thought and turns into action. That means those fantasies could turn into sexual sin with someone else outside of marriage and then live with regrets or consequences.
Some of you will ask is it ok for married couples to masturbate. The answer is would you tell your church you masturbate and would you tell your church you have a relationship with your wife? I’m sure you would say you have a relationship with your wife but probably denies the other.
“Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.” -1 Corinthians 7:2
God also instituted marriage when he gave Eve to Adam his spouse (Genesis 1:22-24). In addition God ordained that sexual activity is limited to persons of the opposite sex, and that sexual intercourse is to take place only within a marriage. He forbids adultery, that is, sex outside of marriage (Exodus 20:14). Unmarried persons who engage in sexual activity are guilty of the sin of fornication (Galatians 5:19; Colossians 3:5; Jude 1:7 and many other passages. The word fornication is used in the King James version for the sin of adultery outside of marriage.
Why is masturbation a sin and why is masturbation dangerous. Not only that if masturbation dangerous or addictive? We are spirit beings and the demonic world are spirit beings and basically you are hooking up with demonic spirits with your spirit, heart and mind. That means a transference of legions of demonic spirits are hooking up with you as sexual toxins and/or demonic poisons flushed out. Now a satanic sexual molester assigned to your body. It brings torment and plays you like a puppet to arose you and torment you. Not only that, the demonic spirits can mess with the chemicals in your brain to imbalance hormones to thrush in the lust, and drive. In fact you create soul ties to the imaginary person but that imaginary person is someone you have
You may want to say this out loud this deliverance renunciation prayer
You may want someone else with authority that you trust to say these deliverance masturbation renunciation prayers
How to Overcome Masturbation and Sexual Sins – Is Masturbation a Sin!
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I repent and renounce all affiliation with the demons of lust, deception, perversion, pornography, fantasy lust fantasy, masturbation, addiction, uncleanness and defilement, unclean spirits and possible exhibitionist (all any others that the Lord shows you and just list which you feel is applicable). I command the spirit(s) to leave me now in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
I break all curses of adultery, perversion, fornication, lust, incest, rape, molestation, illegitimacy, harlotry, and polygamy in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God, I take authority over and bind every sexual demon, and I break off all spiritual soul ties to demonic spirits and legions and satanic molesters that attach me to men/women I fancied about or had sex with. I come against the soul tie and break the spiritual connection as spiritual soul ties to my mind, memory, my body, my heart, my stomach, my sexual organs, my eyes, my breasts, my hips, my lower back, my buttocks, and command every sexual demon to go to the dry places in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Father I ask You to cleanse my spirit, my mind and my body in the Name of Jesus. I now apply the Blood of Jesus Christ of Nazareth over every single ungodly tie.
I also command all addictions as a to lust and need for love coming out of the unloving spirit and rejection to be broken and leave me now in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God, I call the fire of God to burn all cords, soul ties, unclean lust to be burned up and never attach itself to me again.
Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, flush out sexual deposits and toxins out of my body, soul and spirit by the power in the blood of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God, I also also ask you to cleans my hands that have been defiled during sexual lust masturbation and command my hands to be cleansed by your blood in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God, I command every evil spirit or deposit of those people I imagined or had sex with to go back to them. I call forth all parts of me deposited in them to come back to me and declare my heart clean and free in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Lord, Jesus, I confess my inability to keep myself pure, and I ask You, Holy Spirit, to strengthen me in this area my mind, will and emotions, heart, mind and body. Convict me of any thought or deed that will lead me into sin again. Lord, send me an accountability partner, a disciples in this area who will pray for me and watch over my soul. Give me the grace each day to deny myself and help me to recognize and discern lust as lust. Keep me from deception, Lord. I plead the Blood of Jesus over myself and my relationships and I ask You to keep them righteous and holy.
Now in the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I cast out and loose myself from any spirit spouses and authority over (women) Incubus or (men) succubus, satanic sexual molesters or spouse imposters. I break every covenant, curse, soul tie and linkages to satanic sexual molesters, spouse imposters and command it to be broken.
Father God in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I call forth my authority that was stolen from me from these demonic spirits.
Succubus, Lilith and Mare, Baal and Belial and every other strongman not mentioned, and command them to come out of my body, soul and spirit and go to dry places.
I will no longer serve these demon spirits. I renounce Satan and all his works. I declare a divorce with every one of these sexual demons, in the Almighty Name of Jesus of Nazareth.
Father, sweep with Your broom of destruction throughout my body, soul and spirit, and remove every evil spirit still hiding anywhere in my being, in the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I command every chemical imbalance – imbalance of hormones creating the lust, over sex drive, to go back to peace, back to balance, from satanic sexual molesters.
Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I cast out all spirits of loneliness that would drive me to ungodly sexual relationships or fantasy lust in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I command all spirits of hereditary lusts from my ancestors to come out in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
I command all spirits of witchcraft that work with lust to leave in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, clean my vain imaginations in my long-term memory and break the long-term memory not to recall first love, lovers of the past, with my imagination. Put a guard over my mind and give me strength to cast down vain imaginations in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. I declare and decree to the heavens that my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.
If not married and desires marriage:
Father God, if there is any blocking spirits keeping me from meeting my mate, I command all generational assignments to be broken and loose the ability to attract the right men for marriage.
Father God, I cast out all marriage-breaking spirits of lst that would break covenant in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Reversing the Curse:
Father God, I present my body to the Lord as a living sacrifice (Rom. 12:1) My members are the members of Christ. I will not let them be the members of the harlot (1 Cor. 6:15).
Father God, I receive your forgiveness and also forgive myself from these past acts and declare and decree I am free.
I receive the spirit of holiness in my life to walk in sexual purity in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
I am crucified with Christ. I mortify my members. I do not let sign reign in my body, and I will not obey its lust (Rom. 6:6-12).
The Bible does not discuss masturbation at all but there are scriptures that can confirm it leads to sin, addiction or it is an act of lust since masturbation requires fantacy.
“…but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matt5:28)
1 Cor. 6:18, “Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.”
The Greek word for “immorality” is porneia which means illicit sexual intercourse, i.e., fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, etc. The English word “pornography” is derived from this Greek word.
Eph. 5:3, “But do not let immorality or any impurity or greed even be named among you, as is proper among saints.”
Again, the word for “immorality” is porneia.
All sin begins in the heart
Even though the bible does not come out and directly say it is a sin, but it is a fantasy of someone you wish to be with or been with. Then there are your hands involved in making it happen.
All sexual immorality begins with a thought. A lustful thought not taken captive, will eventually lead to other perversions, because sin reproduces itself in increasingly greater measures. If we do not deal with our evil thoughts, they will take root in our hearts.
Not only is masturbation a sin but can be a lust addiction to meet some need. Masturbation is a false pathway of peace to deal with stress and not just a sexual experience. Many times children grow up in chaotic homes and to deal with the stress will turn to masturbation.
Along with masturbation is fantasy and pornography which adds to the same and increases the sin.
Lust is fought on two fronts:
the carnal sin nature and demonic spirits within our carnal nature.
lust of the eyes and flesh
pride of life
Not just stress opens the door to masturbation:
childhood sexual play and exploration
exposure to pornography magazines, tv rated r movies, internet sex sites, etc.
premature sexual experience in the teen years
Less obvious but can arise a person:
music and songs related to something sexual
Song of Solomon 8:4 says “not to stir up want or awaken love before its time.
It is important to discover the triggers to when the activation of lust to take you to masturbation. If you know the triggers, then you can avoid them and protect yourself.
Second, recognize and take responsibility for your life. That means resist the temptations and avoid the triggers.
Third, confess to Christ it is a sin and repent and ask for his forgiveness.
Fourth, find an accountability partner or someone you can trust and help you during the heightened feelings and you feel it is a loosing battle.
Breaking generational or inherited iniquity means breaking strongholds of the mind – wrong thinking.
Example: sinful attitudes, prejudice and wrong values, hurts and pains from others which are learned or inherited iniquity through parents.
It could be something you put in importance over God which might be the same attitude of your father which defines this as idolatry and God hates idolatry. He made us to worship Him only.
In the old testament, and Israel’s problem and fall, ws falling into worshipping other gods to be like the world – acceptance. The World’s jealousy of Israel because of the favor they had with God.
The big obvious sins: occultism, cults, false religions, psychics, witchcraft, satanism, secret societies, sexual sins, blood oaths, but how about more settle things such as excessive love, shopping, food (false pathway to peace when stressed), money, possessions, beauty, power, fame, rock stars, vitamins – healing and so on.
We are not to bow down or have a false pathway to peace or comfort in anything else but God. God should be our all.
Romans 1:25 “Because they exchanged the truth of God for a lie and worshipped and served the creature rather than the Creator, Who is blessed forever! Amen>
Our ancestors worshipped or served other gods, the sin of idolatry results in curses in their hearts would be passed down to the next three or four generations – inherited iniquity. God hates it because all these other things takes us away from our first love, Jesus Christ. God loved us so much that He sent His son to die to save us when we did not deserve it.
Can you look to see anything in your generations or parents that was more important to have over God? If you can say yes, then stand in the gap and repent and renounce the generational inherited iniquity is sins of iniquity. Second question, can you see the same attitude over the same things pressuring you to sucumme!
Iniquity is a heart condition, an inner tendency of man to break God’s heart. God created mankind for love, companionship and fellowship – under God’s terms. He will not share us with anyone or anything else.
The fruits or evidence of iniquity: lawlessness, wickedness, depravity, unrighteousness, and perversion.
Second, make sure you don’t have any bitterness towards others, self or God. Otherwise, the prayer will not work. We are commanded to forgive those who hurt us and pray for them.
Third say the prayer out loud:
Thank you that your blood is able to take away all sin. I believe that and receive it now in Jesus’ name.
I pray forgiveness for the sins of my father, of that bloodline for all generations back, and I ask You to wash me clean now, by the blood of the Lamb. I pray forgiveness for the sins of my mother, of that bloodline for all generations back, and I ask You to wash me clean now, by the blood of the Lamb. I receive Your forgiveness and believe that by Your blood I am cleansed from the sins of all my generational bloodlines.
I take the authority that I have in my blood covenant with Jesus Christ, and I break all generational curses on my father’s side all generations back, broken now, by the blood of the Lamb.
I take that same authority and break all generational curses on my mother’s side, all generations back, broken now, by the blood of the Lamb.
With the same authority I have under the blood covenant of salvation in Jesus, I break any spoken curses on my family bloodline. I also break the power of all seals of silence and all vows of secrecy. I take the same authority in the name and the blood of Jesus, and I break all covenants and contracts to Satan including blood covenant contracts.
I also pray forgiveness for the sins of my family line of all those things that have happened in darkness, such as any attachment to slavery or any kind of persecution or mistreatment or abuse of any people groups or individuals, and I pray blessings on all descendants of the persecuted groups or individuals. I pray forgiveness for the sin of all idolatries attached to the American Indian bloodline and break all related curses. I also break any attachments to family superstitions and idolatries, ungodly beliefs, wives tales, luck charms, and rhyme curses in Jesus’ name.
Thank you, Jesus, that Your word says, “Cursed is the one who hangs on the tree.” You took our curses, and You took our sins, so that we can have life more abundantly, and we praise you for it.
I receive by faith that now all generational sins and all generational curses are broken by the blood of the Lamb, in Jesus’ name. Amen.</p?